Comments on: Who chooses to live lives! http://blueladyblog.com/article/who-chooses-to-live-lives.html It's not just another Cambodia blog Wed, 23 May 2012 02:55:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Keo Kounila http://blueladyblog.com/article/who-chooses-to-live-lives.html/comment-page-1#comment-136 Keo Kounila Thu, 06 Mar 2008 05:02:00 +0000 http://www.blueladyblog.com/uncategorized/who-chooses-to-live-lives.html#comment-136 Thank you, kmjaqzie. I am not sure if I know you. But thank you very much for your explanation and comments. They are very useful. Thank you. Thank you, kmjaqzie. I am not sure if I know you. But thank you very much for your explanation and comments. They are very useful. Thank you.

]]> By: Anonymous http://blueladyblog.com/article/who-chooses-to-live-lives.html/comment-page-1#comment-132 Anonymous Wed, 05 Mar 2008 23:46:00 +0000 http://www.blueladyblog.com/uncategorized/who-chooses-to-live-lives.html#comment-132 Hi kounila;<br/>Can't wait to read your controversial article [as you mentioned to me last time] so I turn up and read this particular article instead.<br/><br/>First, let me share your sadness and sorrow for the lost of your economy teacher and my condolences to his wife and his family.<br/><br/>From what I get in your article you are so proud to have such a wonderful teacher and you can't work out exactly why a young man like him with full potential would wan to end his life this way [so did his friend according to your article].<br/><br/>You did mention "Stress" [mind you am not a medical expert], which may be the cause of his action. But Stress is the early state of mental disorder when one felt the pressure of any sort that within their control but couldn't cope and helplessness to resolve the matter. The longer the stress the worse mental condition would follow which leads to Depression.<br/><br/>Depression is a silent killer which drive a person to certain extent and that including "Suicide" which is the sole way out/solution to have in their mind. <br/><br/>If he would have seen his doctor on regular basis, taken the prescribed medication and openly talk to his close friend or family member then his life may be saved.<br/><br/>Having openly talk to someone his trust is relief of that anxiety and the hidden impulsive idea on suicide. May be he did and he seemed to get no support from his family [you mentioned that he failed to take his life on 2 occasions in the past]. <br/><br/>My experience taught me that "If I ever encountered stress again then I must stand up tall and my face high to speak out and get thing off my chest instead of nurture in my mind".<br/><br/>Once, it took me 6 years to realized that life is to precious and I could not carry on like that, and thank to a circle of my close friends who rang up to check on me in turn just in case I would take my life.<br/><br/>I used to hate the day light during the morning [kept saying to myself, please sun will you rise sooner] and hate the night [kept say to myself, please sun rise sooner]; I was lost completely [all those years I never switched on the light but rather sat in dark and had a few drinks, slept, woke up and went to work in the morning then repeat the same actions and again].<br/><br/>To overcome this sort of problem one shall have their conscious awaken, realize the value of life, realize that past is past and must get on with life, a circle of close friend and family who be there to listen to what you have to say and help you in anyway they possibly can.<br/><br/>kmjaqzie Hi kounila;
Can’t wait to read your controversial article [as you mentioned to me last time] so I turn up and read this particular article instead.

First, let me share your sadness and sorrow for the lost of your economy teacher and my condolences to his wife and his family.

From what I get in your article you are so proud to have such a wonderful teacher and you can’t work out exactly why a young man like him with full potential would wan to end his life this way [so did his friend according to your article].

You did mention “Stress” [mind you am not a medical expert], which may be the cause of his action. But Stress is the early state of mental disorder when one felt the pressure of any sort that within their control but couldn’t cope and helplessness to resolve the matter. The longer the stress the worse mental condition would follow which leads to Depression.

Depression is a silent killer which drive a person to certain extent and that including “Suicide” which is the sole way out/solution to have in their mind.

If he would have seen his doctor on regular basis, taken the prescribed medication and openly talk to his close friend or family member then his life may be saved.

Having openly talk to someone his trust is relief of that anxiety and the hidden impulsive idea on suicide. May be he did and he seemed to get no support from his family [you mentioned that he failed to take his life on 2 occasions in the past].

My experience taught me that “If I ever encountered stress again then I must stand up tall and my face high to speak out and get thing off my chest instead of nurture in my mind”.

Once, it took me 6 years to realized that life is to precious and I could not carry on like that, and thank to a circle of my close friends who rang up to check on me in turn just in case I would take my life.

I used to hate the day light during the morning [kept saying to myself, please sun will you rise sooner] and hate the night [kept say to myself, please sun rise sooner]; I was lost completely [all those years I never switched on the light but rather sat in dark and had a few drinks, slept, woke up and went to work in the morning then repeat the same actions and again].

To overcome this sort of problem one shall have their conscious awaken, realize the value of life, realize that past is past and must get on with life, a circle of close friend and family who be there to listen to what you have to say and help you in anyway they possibly can.

kmjaqzie

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